"To what a bad choice is many a worthy woman betrayed, by that false and inconsiderate notion, That a reformed rake makes the best husband!"
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The phrase “betrayed” matters. Worthy women aren’t merely mistaken; they’re led into harm by a story that flatters them. If he’s a rake, the thinking goes, he has “experienced” life; if he reforms, it must be for you; if he chooses marriage, you must be exceptional. Richardson exposes the vanity trap: the fantasy of being the woman who tames him. That script launders a man’s past into proof of desirability while turning a woman’s caution into a failure of imagination. It also shifts responsibility. If he backslides, the blame quietly migrates to her for believing, tolerating, “saving.”
Contextually, this is Richardson in his wheelhouse: the 18th-century marriage market where a woman’s prospects are constrained, reputation is currency, and “choice” is often a thin euphemism for managed risk. The rake figure (popular in Restoration and early novelistic culture) is charming precisely because he violates rules; reform makes him safe enough to own without stripping the thrill. Richardson’s intent is to puncture that bargain. He’s warning that misogyny can arrive dressed as romance, and that the most dangerous myths are the ones that sound like compliments.
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Richardson, Samuel. (n.d.). To what a bad choice is many a worthy woman betrayed, by that false and inconsiderate notion, That a reformed rake makes the best husband! FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-what-a-bad-choice-is-many-a-worthy-woman-11477/
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Richardson, Samuel. "To what a bad choice is many a worthy woman betrayed, by that false and inconsiderate notion, That a reformed rake makes the best husband!" FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-what-a-bad-choice-is-many-a-worthy-woman-11477/.
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"To what a bad choice is many a worthy woman betrayed, by that false and inconsiderate notion, That a reformed rake makes the best husband!" FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-what-a-bad-choice-is-many-a-worthy-woman-11477/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.








