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"Toby not being there doesn't bother me, I mean I can work with anybody as long as we get along and as long as they've got an understanding of what I want and what I'm aiming for. To start with, when he left, it was difficult"

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Jay Kay performs the classic frontman two-step here: insist it "doesn't bother me", then immediately admit it was "difficult". That tiny pivot is the whole story. In band breakups, the official line is always professionalism and forward motion; the unofficial reality is grief, power shifts, and the fear that the magic was a specific chemistry you can’t spreadsheet into a new lineup. Kay tries to protect the brand while letting just enough vulnerability leak through to sound human.

The phrase "I can work with anybody" is less egalitarian than managerial. It frames the group as interchangeable parts, with one fixed point: his vision. The conditions he sets are revealingly asymmetrical: you just need to "get along" and, more crucially, understand "what I want and what I'm aiming for". Collaboration, in this telling, is alignment. He’s not describing a band so much as a project with a director, which is often how long-running acts survive - and how they fracture.

Context matters: Jamiroquai’s identity has always been tied to a specific groove and a specific swagger. When a key member like Toby leaves, fans hear the potential loss in the negative space: will the rhythm change, will the feel thin out, will the next record sound like a tribute act to itself? Kay’s careful phrasing reassures the audience that continuity is possible, while quietly acknowledging that losing a trusted collaborator isn’t just a staffing issue. It’s a recalibration of trust, taste, and control.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kay, Jay. (n.d.). Toby not being there doesn't bother me, I mean I can work with anybody as long as we get along and as long as they've got an understanding of what I want and what I'm aiming for. To start with, when he left, it was difficult. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/toby-not-being-there-doesnt-bother-me-i-mean-i-164881/

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Kay, Jay. "Toby not being there doesn't bother me, I mean I can work with anybody as long as we get along and as long as they've got an understanding of what I want and what I'm aiming for. To start with, when he left, it was difficult." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/toby-not-being-there-doesnt-bother-me-i-mean-i-164881/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Toby not being there doesn't bother me, I mean I can work with anybody as long as we get along and as long as they've got an understanding of what I want and what I'm aiming for. To start with, when he left, it was difficult." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/toby-not-being-there-doesnt-bother-me-i-mean-i-164881/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Jay Kay (born December 30, 1969) is a Musician from England.

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