"Today, Democrats not only have the White House; they have the Senate too. So we have to be realistic about what we can and cannot achieve, while at the same, recognizing that realism should never be confused with capitulation"
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The key move is the pivot from arithmetic to morality. “Be realistic about what we can and cannot achieve” sounds like humility, but it’s also a preemptive downgrade of ambition, a way to normalize obstruction and narrow the range of what’s considered possible. McConnell doesn’t argue against specific policies; he argues against the idea that policy should be attempted at scale. That’s not a legislative critique. It’s a cultural one: don’t get your hopes up.
Then comes the aphorism with teeth: “realism should never be confused with capitulation.” On its face it reassures Republicans that compromise won’t become surrender. In practice it functions as a warning shot at moderates and institutionalists tempted to cut deals in a unified-government moment. Capitulation is an emotionally loaded word - war vocabulary - that recasts routine bargaining as betrayal. The subtext is faction management: hold the line, deny Democrats “wins,” and keep the base convinced that losing a chamber doesn’t require changing tactics, only sharpening them.
Context matters: post-Trump Republican politics rewards performative resistance. McConnell’s genius is translating that impulse into a disciplined message that makes gridlock sound like principle.
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McConnell, Mitch. (2026, February 17). Today, Democrats not only have the White House; they have the Senate too. So we have to be realistic about what we can and cannot achieve, while at the same, recognizing that realism should never be confused with capitulation. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/today-democrats-not-only-have-the-white-house-147761/
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McConnell, Mitch. "Today, Democrats not only have the White House; they have the Senate too. So we have to be realistic about what we can and cannot achieve, while at the same, recognizing that realism should never be confused with capitulation." FixQuotes. February 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/today-democrats-not-only-have-the-white-house-147761/.
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"Today, Democrats not only have the White House; they have the Senate too. So we have to be realistic about what we can and cannot achieve, while at the same, recognizing that realism should never be confused with capitulation." FixQuotes, 17 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/today-democrats-not-only-have-the-white-house-147761/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.





