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Daily Inspiration Quote by Robert Brault

"Today I bent the truth to be kind, and I have no regret, for I am far surer of what is kind than I am of what is true"

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A clean confession like this lands because it refuses the usual moral hierarchy. Brault isn’t dressing up a “white lie” as virtue; he’s bluntly prioritizing kindness over accuracy, then tightening the screw with that last clause: he trusts his moral instinct more than his epistemology. The provocation is subtle. It doesn’t say truth is worthless. It says truth is slippery, contingent, often weaponized by people who hide cruelty behind “just being honest.” Kindness, in his framing, is the rarer competence: harder to fake, harder to rationalize after the fact, and easier to measure by its impact.

The subtext is an argument about power. “Truth” can be a cudgel in relationships, a way to win, correct, dominate. By admitting he “bent” it, he exposes the social theater of honesty: we edit ourselves constantly, but we excuse only the edits that flatter our self-image. Brault asks the reader to consider a different standard of integrity, one rooted in care rather than precision.

Contextually, this sits in a late-20th-century self-help and moral-philosophy ecosystem that’s skeptical of absolutism. It reads like an antidote to purity culture in discourse: the idea that ethical speech is always maximal candor. He’s not endorsing manipulation; he’s endorsing triage. Sometimes the humane act is to withhold a sharp fact until it can be received without harm, or to let someone keep dignity when the “truth” would only satisfy the speaker’s appetite for correctness.

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Later attribution: Be the Parent of Your Child's Dreams (Malcolm Bonner, 2014) modern compilationISBN: 9780971294325 · ID: i5LjBwAAQBAJ
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Brault, Robert. (2026, February 12). Today I bent the truth to be kind, and I have no regret, for I am far surer of what is kind than I am of what is true. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/today-i-bent-the-truth-to-be-kind-and-i-have-no-64450/

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Brault, Robert. "Today I bent the truth to be kind, and I have no regret, for I am far surer of what is kind than I am of what is true." FixQuotes. February 12, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/today-i-bent-the-truth-to-be-kind-and-i-have-no-64450/.

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"Today I bent the truth to be kind, and I have no regret, for I am far surer of what is kind than I am of what is true." FixQuotes, 12 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/today-i-bent-the-truth-to-be-kind-and-i-have-no-64450/. Accessed 2 Mar. 2026.

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