"Today I bent the truth to be kind, and I have no regret, for I am far surer of what is kind than I am of what is true"
About this Quote
The subtext is an argument about power. “Truth” can be a cudgel in relationships, a way to win, correct, dominate. By admitting he “bent” it, he exposes the social theater of honesty: we edit ourselves constantly, but we excuse only the edits that flatter our self-image. Brault asks the reader to consider a different standard of integrity, one rooted in care rather than precision.
Contextually, this sits in a late-20th-century self-help and moral-philosophy ecosystem that’s skeptical of absolutism. It reads like an antidote to purity culture in discourse: the idea that ethical speech is always maximal candor. He’s not endorsing manipulation; he’s endorsing triage. Sometimes the humane act is to withhold a sharp fact until it can be received without harm, or to let someone keep dignity when the “truth” would only satisfy the speaker’s appetite for correctness.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
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| Source | Later attribution: Be the Parent of Your Child's Dreams (Malcolm Bonner, 2014) modern compilationISBN: 9780971294325 · ID: i5LjBwAAQBAJ
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... Today I bent the truth to be kind , and I have no regret , for I am far surer of what is kind than I am of what is true . - Robert Brault Some of us like to characterize ourselves and our verbal stylings as " brutally honest . " Is it ... |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Brault, Robert. (2026, February 12). Today I bent the truth to be kind, and I have no regret, for I am far surer of what is kind than I am of what is true. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/today-i-bent-the-truth-to-be-kind-and-i-have-no-64450/
Chicago Style
Brault, Robert. "Today I bent the truth to be kind, and I have no regret, for I am far surer of what is kind than I am of what is true." FixQuotes. February 12, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/today-i-bent-the-truth-to-be-kind-and-i-have-no-64450/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Today I bent the truth to be kind, and I have no regret, for I am far surer of what is kind than I am of what is true." FixQuotes, 12 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/today-i-bent-the-truth-to-be-kind-and-i-have-no-64450/. Accessed 2 Mar. 2026.













