"Tracy is more a help to me than I am to her"
About this Quote
The specificity of "Tracy" matters. It's not "my wife" or "my family" - it's Tracy Pollan, a person with a proper name, which pulls the sentiment out of Hallmark territory and into lived domestic reality. That choice signals respect: she isn't an accessory to his narrative of illness; she is a co-author of the life they built.
The subtext is even sharper: he is also helping her, but not in the macho, ledger-balancing way people expect. By framing himself as the receiver, Fox makes room for a kind of emotional honesty men - especially famous ones - are rarely rewarded for. In a culture that treats disability as tragedy and marriage as caretaking labor, the line insists on something more radical: being loved isn't just being supported. It's being allowed to need, openly, without apology.
Quote Details
| Topic | Husband & Wife |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Fox, Michael J. (2026, January 17). Tracy is more a help to me than I am to her. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/tracy-is-more-a-help-to-me-than-i-am-to-her-71294/
Chicago Style
Fox, Michael J. "Tracy is more a help to me than I am to her." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/tracy-is-more-a-help-to-me-than-i-am-to-her-71294/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Tracy is more a help to me than I am to her." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/tracy-is-more-a-help-to-me-than-i-am-to-her-71294/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

