"Treat the other man's faith gently: it is all he has to believe with"
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A businessman’s line about “faith” lands like a quiet rebuke to the marketplace instinct to win every argument. “Treat the other man’s faith gently” isn’t a plea for sentimentality; it’s a practical ethic for living among people whose convictions are often their last stable asset. Haskins frames belief not as a set of propositions to be tested, but as an instrument: “all he has to believe with.” That final clause is the twist. Faith becomes less a theology than a tool kit, the only lens through which someone can make sense of risk, loss, hierarchy, and hope.
The intent feels managerial in the best sense: if you want durable relationships - in business, in civic life, in family - you don’t bulldoze the inner scaffolding that keeps others upright. The subtext is blunt about human vulnerability. People can swap jobs, cities, even spouses, but the beliefs that organize their moral world are harder to replace. Mocking or “debunking” them isn’t just rude; it’s destabilizing, a kind of social arson disguised as rational critique.
Context matters: Haskins lived through the hard reset of modernity - industrial expansion, World War I, the Great Depression, World War II. In eras when institutions fail and certainties evaporate, faith (religious or otherwise) becomes a survival technology. The line also sneaks in a caution to the confident skeptic: your superior logic may be real, but your target isn’t an argument. It’s a person, holding their life together with whatever materials they’ve got.
The intent feels managerial in the best sense: if you want durable relationships - in business, in civic life, in family - you don’t bulldoze the inner scaffolding that keeps others upright. The subtext is blunt about human vulnerability. People can swap jobs, cities, even spouses, but the beliefs that organize their moral world are harder to replace. Mocking or “debunking” them isn’t just rude; it’s destabilizing, a kind of social arson disguised as rational critique.
Context matters: Haskins lived through the hard reset of modernity - industrial expansion, World War I, the Great Depression, World War II. In eras when institutions fail and certainties evaporate, faith (religious or otherwise) becomes a survival technology. The line also sneaks in a caution to the confident skeptic: your superior logic may be real, but your target isn’t an argument. It’s a person, holding their life together with whatever materials they’ve got.
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| Topic | Faith |
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