"Treat those who are good with goodness, and also treat those who are not good with goodness. Thus goodness is attained. Be honest to those who are honest, and be also honest to those who are not honest. Thus honesty is attained"
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The subtext is that “bad” and “dishonest” people don’t just test your character; they set the terms of the social environment. Responding in kind lets them control the temperature of the room. Lao Tzu’s move is to deny them that leverage. This is not naive about human nature; it assumes conflict is inevitable, and it treats consistency as the only real power you can reliably wield. In Taoist terms, it’s a kind of wu wei: not passivity, but non-escalation that still shapes outcomes.
Context matters. Early Taoist writing emerges during an era of fracturing authority and constant political maneuvering. A ruler who governs by suspicion and punishment breeds more deception; a leader who models steadiness can make honesty less risky and goodness less performative. “Thus honesty is attained” reads less like a moral halo and more like social engineering: create conditions where truth-telling and decency become rational, contagious choices. It’s virtue as climate control, not virtue as a medal.
Quote Details
| Topic | Honesty & Integrity |
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| Source | Unverified source: The Texts of Taoism, Part I (Sacred Books of the East, Vo... (Lao Tzu, 1891)
Evidence: To those who are good (to me), I am good; and to those who are not good (to me), I am also good;--and thus (all) get to be good. To those who are sincere (with me), I am sincere; and to those who are not sincere (with me), I am also sincere;--and thus (all) get to be sincere. (Tao Teh King (Tao T... Other candidates (1) 101 Quotes By Lao Tzu: Timeless Wisdom For Modern Living (Nathan Pynnos, 2023) compilation99.9% ... Treat those who are good with goodness, and also treat those who are not good with goodness. Thus goodness is att... |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Tzu, Lao. (2026, February 27). Treat those who are good with goodness, and also treat those who are not good with goodness. Thus goodness is attained. Be honest to those who are honest, and be also honest to those who are not honest. Thus honesty is attained. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/treat-those-who-are-good-with-goodness-and-also-28424/
Chicago Style
Tzu, Lao. "Treat those who are good with goodness, and also treat those who are not good with goodness. Thus goodness is attained. Be honest to those who are honest, and be also honest to those who are not honest. Thus honesty is attained." FixQuotes. February 27, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/treat-those-who-are-good-with-goodness-and-also-28424/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Treat those who are good with goodness, and also treat those who are not good with goodness. Thus goodness is attained. Be honest to those who are honest, and be also honest to those who are not honest. Thus honesty is attained." FixQuotes, 27 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/treat-those-who-are-good-with-goodness-and-also-28424/. Accessed 15 Mar. 2026.








