"True love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights. If you hear bells, get your ears checked"
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The subtext is faintly accusatory. If you need banners and flashing lights, you may be in love with the performance of love, not the person. “Quietly” isn’t coyness; it’s a claim about signal versus noise. Real attachment often looks boring from the outside because it doesn’t need witnesses. It doesn’t announce itself; it accumulates.
Context matters here: Segal wrote in and around an era when romance was being industrialized into montage and merchandising, even as his own work (“Love Story”) helped define mainstream romantic expectation. This reads like a corrective from inside the factory. He knows how the soundtrack works, so he’s telling you not to trust it. The best part is that he doesn’t preach. He diagnoses. If it’s loud, check your ears.
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| Topic | Romantic |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Segal, Erich. (2026, January 15). True love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights. If you hear bells, get your ears checked. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/true-love-comes-quietly-without-banners-or-144910/
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Segal, Erich. "True love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights. If you hear bells, get your ears checked." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/true-love-comes-quietly-without-banners-or-144910/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"True love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights. If you hear bells, get your ears checked." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/true-love-comes-quietly-without-banners-or-144910/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.











