"True love doesn't happen right away; it's an ever-growing process. It develops after you've gone through many ups and downs, when you've suffered together, cried together, laughed together"
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Montalban frames love not as a lightning strike but as a long-running series, the kind that earns its renewal season after season. Coming from an actor whose career was built on charisma and polished romance, the line quietly pushes back against the very fantasy his industry sells: instant chemistry, swelling strings, fade-out at the first kiss. His “doesn’t happen right away” punctures the myth of destiny with something more stubborn - time, repetition, repair.
The key move is the list of shared verbs: suffered, cried, laughed. It’s not poetic decoration; it’s a moral argument about intimacy as witness. Love, in this telling, isn’t proved by how you feel at your best but by what you’re willing to endure without turning the other person into collateral damage. “Ups and downs” is deliberately unspecific, which makes the sentiment portable: financial stress, illness, aging, career disappointments, the low-grade frictions that don’t make movie plots but do make marriages.
There’s also a subtle piece of old-school discipline here. “Process” and “develops” sound almost vocational, like craftsmanship. For a public figure from a generation that treated privacy as part of professionalism, the quote reads like permission to demystify romance without cheapening it. Real love, he suggests, is less about constant sparkle than accumulated evidence - a relationship becoming truer precisely because it has survived being tested.
The key move is the list of shared verbs: suffered, cried, laughed. It’s not poetic decoration; it’s a moral argument about intimacy as witness. Love, in this telling, isn’t proved by how you feel at your best but by what you’re willing to endure without turning the other person into collateral damage. “Ups and downs” is deliberately unspecific, which makes the sentiment portable: financial stress, illness, aging, career disappointments, the low-grade frictions that don’t make movie plots but do make marriages.
There’s also a subtle piece of old-school discipline here. “Process” and “develops” sound almost vocational, like craftsmanship. For a public figure from a generation that treated privacy as part of professionalism, the quote reads like permission to demystify romance without cheapening it. Real love, he suggests, is less about constant sparkle than accumulated evidence - a relationship becoming truer precisely because it has survived being tested.
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