"Trust has to be earned, and should come only after the passage of time"
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The subtext is protective without being paranoid. Ashe isn’t arguing for suspicion; he’s arguing against being rushed. That’s a cultural pressure point: people want credibility fast, intimacy fast, forgiveness fast, as if speed proves sincerity. Ashe flips that. If trust can be granted instantly, it can be taken instantly, manipulated instantly, performed instantly. Time strips performance down to pattern.
Context matters because Ashe lived in arenas where trust was both practical and political. On court, you trust your body, your preparation, your team; that trust is built through repetition and setbacks, not declarations. Off court, as a prominent Black public figure navigating institutions that smiled in public and gatekept in private, “earned” carries a quiet warning. He’s dignifying caution as wisdom, not coldness.
The sentence works because it refuses drama. No grand theory, just a standard. It makes trust feel less like a leap and more like a contract written in days, not words.
Quote Details
| Topic | Honesty & Integrity |
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"Trust has to be earned, and should come only after the passage of time." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/trust-has-to-be-earned-and-should-come-only-after-4322/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.











