"Truth of a modest sort I can promise you, and also sincerity. That complete, praiseworthy sincerity which, while it delivers one into the hands of one's enemies, is as likely as not to embroil one with one's friends"
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The phrasing “complete, praiseworthy sincerity” carries a sly doubleness. “Praiseworthy” is what people say they want, the poster slogan; “complete” is what they can’t actually tolerate. Conrad’s insight is that sincerity isn’t just candor toward opponents; it’s the refusal to perform the small, necessary fictions that keep relationships lubricated. Tell the truth to enemies and you give them leverage. Tell it to friends and you puncture the unspoken agreements - the flattering omissions, the tactical misunderstandings - that pass for loyalty.
Context matters: Conrad writes out of a world of shifting allegiances, imperial bureaucracy, and moral fog, where language is never neutral and motives rarely arrive uncut. In that environment, sincerity becomes less a halo than a stress test. The subtext is almost bleakly comic: everyone applauds honesty until it produces consequences. Conrad isn’t warning against sincerity; he’s warning that choosing it means choosing fallout, and that the most dangerous audience is often the one that loves you.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Conrad, Joseph. (2026, January 16). Truth of a modest sort I can promise you, and also sincerity. That complete, praiseworthy sincerity which, while it delivers one into the hands of one's enemies, is as likely as not to embroil one with one's friends. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/truth-of-a-modest-sort-i-can-promise-you-and-also-103555/
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Conrad, Joseph. "Truth of a modest sort I can promise you, and also sincerity. That complete, praiseworthy sincerity which, while it delivers one into the hands of one's enemies, is as likely as not to embroil one with one's friends." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/truth-of-a-modest-sort-i-can-promise-you-and-also-103555/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Truth of a modest sort I can promise you, and also sincerity. That complete, praiseworthy sincerity which, while it delivers one into the hands of one's enemies, is as likely as not to embroil one with one's friends." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/truth-of-a-modest-sort-i-can-promise-you-and-also-103555/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.












