"Try to have as diverse group of friends as possible and don't get into the the clique scenario"
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The real target is the “clique scenario,” a phrase that feels almost teen-drama generic, which fits Shue’s cultural afterimage. Cliques promise protection and status, but they also demand conformity. The subtext is a warning about how quickly identity becomes a performance when your social circle is built around approval. “Don’t get into” frames clique behavior as a trap you slide into, not a moral failing you choose; that’s compassionate, but also realistic. Social segregation is often just inertia with better branding.
Context matters: Shue came of age in a late-80s/90s ecosystem that sold youth culture through neat tribes and archetypes. In that world, having “a diverse group of friends” isn’t a corporate slogan; it’s an antidote to the narrow scripts that tell you who you’re allowed to be. The advice is less about being virtuous and more about staying human: wider friendships mean fewer blind spots, less social fear, and a life that can’t be reduced to one scene, one hallway, one table.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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Shue, Andrew. (2026, January 17). Try to have as diverse group of friends as possible and don't get into the the clique scenario. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/try-to-have-as-diverse-group-of-friends-as-56516/
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Shue, Andrew. "Try to have as diverse group of friends as possible and don't get into the the clique scenario." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/try-to-have-as-diverse-group-of-friends-as-56516/.
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"Try to have as diverse group of friends as possible and don't get into the the clique scenario." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/try-to-have-as-diverse-group-of-friends-as-56516/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









