"Try to help others. Consult their weaknesses, relieve their maladies; strive to raise them up, and by so doing you will most effectually raise yourself up also"
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The subtext is distinctly Victorian and distinctly Christian. Lightfoot wrote in a world where philanthropy, parish work, and social reform were becoming institutionalized, yet anxiety about “respectability” and performative charity lingered. His language pressures the would-be helper to enter the messy specifics of another person’s life: weakness, malady, being “raised up.” It’s a vocabulary of triage and restoration, suggesting that spiritual maturity is tested not by private conviction but by contact with other people’s need.
Then comes the almost disarming incentive: help others and you “most effectually” raise yourself. Lightfoot isn’t selling altruism as pure selflessness; he’s arguing that the self is renovated through proximity to suffering, through the humility of attending to someone else’s limitations. That’s shrewd rhetoric for a theologian: it appeals to duty and to self-interest without collapsing into cynicism. He implies that the shortest route to personal elevation is the long route through another person’s burden - not because good deeds earn status, but because they rewire the ego, turning moral ambition into practiced empathy.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lightfoot, Joseph Barber. (2026, January 18). Try to help others. Consult their weaknesses, relieve their maladies; strive to raise them up, and by so doing you will most effectually raise yourself up also. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/try-to-help-others-consult-their-weaknesses-13510/
Chicago Style
Lightfoot, Joseph Barber. "Try to help others. Consult their weaknesses, relieve their maladies; strive to raise them up, and by so doing you will most effectually raise yourself up also." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/try-to-help-others-consult-their-weaknesses-13510/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Try to help others. Consult their weaknesses, relieve their maladies; strive to raise them up, and by so doing you will most effectually raise yourself up also." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/try-to-help-others-consult-their-weaknesses-13510/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










