"TV happens. And once it's happened, it's gone. When it's gone, you move on, no tears, no tantrums, no videotape"
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The subtext is a quiet rejection of fandom-as-ownership. “No tears, no tantrums” isn’t just about self-control; it’s a jab at the consumer fantasy that every experience should be on-demand, collectible, rewatchable forever. Schmich is defending an older contract between viewer and medium: you show up at the appointed hour, you accept what you missed, you don’t litigate the schedule like a personal betrayal.
“No videotape” pins the quote to a specific moment when recording was possible but still felt slightly illicit, a hack against the intended flow. That detail matters because it frames TV as intentionally unsentimental: the networks programmed for tomorrow, not your nostalgia. Schmich’s journalist sensibility comes through in the cadence - clipped, declarative, almost newsroom dry - using repetition to mimic the relentless churn she’s describing.
Read now, in the streaming era, it lands as both prophecy and eulogy. We “never lose” shows anymore, yet we’re drowning in choice and perpetually behind. Schmich’s point survives the technology shift: the healthiest stance toward mass culture may still be to let it pass, and keep your life bigger than the feed.
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| Topic | Moving On |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Schmich, Mary. (2026, January 16). TV happens. And once it's happened, it's gone. When it's gone, you move on, no tears, no tantrums, no videotape. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/tv-happens-and-once-its-happened-its-gone-when-130008/
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Schmich, Mary. "TV happens. And once it's happened, it's gone. When it's gone, you move on, no tears, no tantrums, no videotape." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/tv-happens-and-once-its-happened-its-gone-when-130008/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"TV happens. And once it's happened, it's gone. When it's gone, you move on, no tears, no tantrums, no videotape." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/tv-happens-and-once-its-happened-its-gone-when-130008/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



