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Love Quote by Emily Carr

"Twenty can't be expected to tolerate sixty in all things, and sixty gets bored stiff with twenty's eternal love affairs"

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Carr’s line lands like a dry sketch from someone who’s watched generations talk past each other and decided to stop pretending it’s a moral failing. She isn’t romanticizing youth or scolding age; she’s naming a basic asymmetry: each decade lives inside a different tempo. Twenty is built for intensity, quick pivots, all-consuming crushes that feel like destiny. Sixty has already seen destiny miss its stop, has endured patterns repeating, and has learned the quiet power of refusing drama on schedule.

The wit is in the bluntness of “can’t be expected” and “bored stiff.” Carr treats intergenerational friction as physiological, not ideological. That choice matters. It sidesteps the usual sermon about empathy and replaces it with something more honest: patience has limits, and nostalgia is selective. “Eternal love affairs” is especially sharp because it mocks youth’s sense that every feeling is unprecedented. From sixty’s vantage, the “eternal” is a recurring season, not a miracle.

Contextually, Carr lived through a compressed parade of modernity: Victorian strictures, women’s shifting roles, industrial expansion, war, and the emerging modernist sensibility in art. As an artist who often worked against the grain of institutions and expectations, she knew what it meant to be misread by people with different assumptions. The quote isn’t just about dating; it’s about taste, priorities, and attention. It’s Carr arguing that mismatch isn’t a crisis to be solved so much as a fact to be managed - with humor, and maybe a little strategic distance.

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Carr, Emily. (2026, January 17). Twenty can't be expected to tolerate sixty in all things, and sixty gets bored stiff with twenty's eternal love affairs. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/twenty-cant-be-expected-to-tolerate-sixty-in-all-45770/

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Carr, Emily. "Twenty can't be expected to tolerate sixty in all things, and sixty gets bored stiff with twenty's eternal love affairs." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/twenty-cant-be-expected-to-tolerate-sixty-in-all-45770/.

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"Twenty can't be expected to tolerate sixty in all things, and sixty gets bored stiff with twenty's eternal love affairs." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/twenty-cant-be-expected-to-tolerate-sixty-in-all-45770/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.

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Emily Carr (December 13, 1871 - March 2, 1945) was a Artist from Canada.

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