"Ultimately this issue is on us. We're the ones who make the decisions about what our kids eat"
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The subtext is a careful balancing act between empowerment and indictment. "We’re the ones" is inclusive enough to avoid sounding like a scold from on high, yet it still carries a moral edge: if we decide, then we can’t pretend we’re powerless. It’s also a quiet rebuttal to the American tendency to outsource parenting to institutions and then rage at those same institutions when outcomes are bad. She’s not just urging better nutrition; she’s arguing for adult responsibility in a culture that markets convenience as a virtue.
Context matters: as First Lady, Obama couldn’t legislate, but she could shame, inspire, and normalize new expectations. The line echoes the ethos of the Let’s Move! era - government as megaphone, not nanny - where persuasion and social pressure were the tools available. The genius is that it sounds simple, even obvious, which is exactly why it sticks.
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| Topic | Parenting |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Obama, Michelle. (2026, January 18). Ultimately this issue is on us. We're the ones who make the decisions about what our kids eat. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ultimately-this-issue-is-on-us-were-the-ones-who-20257/
Chicago Style
Obama, Michelle. "Ultimately this issue is on us. We're the ones who make the decisions about what our kids eat." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ultimately-this-issue-is-on-us-were-the-ones-who-20257/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Ultimately this issue is on us. We're the ones who make the decisions about what our kids eat." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ultimately-this-issue-is-on-us-were-the-ones-who-20257/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




