"Unfortunately, I was not wise enough to listen to her advice, and hastily married. In a few weeks, I had occasion to repent of the step I had taken, as the report proved true - a report which I thought justified, and indeed required, our separation"
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The subtext is reputation management in a culture that policed women’s respectability with ruthless efficiency. To leave a marriage, especially quickly, risked being cast as fickle, fallen, or worse. Monk’s phrasing anticipates that judgment and preemptively answers it: I didn’t want this, I didn’t cause this, I had no choice. The passive construction (“had occasion to repent”) and the bureaucratic insistence of “required” drain the mess of feeling from the act, recoding it as reluctant duty rather than desire.
Context matters because Monk’s celebrity was inseparable from scandal and public appetite for moral melodrama. Her voice operates in the key of sensational testimony: personal calamity presented as evidence, rumor elevated to verdict. “The report” is conveniently vague, a narrative device that lets readers project whatever transgression they’re primed to believe. It’s a sharp move: specificity invites scrutiny; ambiguity fuels outrage. The result is a self-portrait of a woman forced into righteousness by circumstance, and a reminder that in the attention economy, even repentance can be a performance with a strategic script.
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| Topic | Divorce |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Monk, Maria. (2026, January 17). Unfortunately, I was not wise enough to listen to her advice, and hastily married. In a few weeks, I had occasion to repent of the step I had taken, as the report proved true - a report which I thought justified, and indeed required, our separation. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/unfortunately-i-was-not-wise-enough-to-listen-to-79551/
Chicago Style
Monk, Maria. "Unfortunately, I was not wise enough to listen to her advice, and hastily married. In a few weeks, I had occasion to repent of the step I had taken, as the report proved true - a report which I thought justified, and indeed required, our separation." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/unfortunately-i-was-not-wise-enough-to-listen-to-79551/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Unfortunately, I was not wise enough to listen to her advice, and hastily married. In a few weeks, I had occasion to repent of the step I had taken, as the report proved true - a report which I thought justified, and indeed required, our separation." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/unfortunately-i-was-not-wise-enough-to-listen-to-79551/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.




