"Until you have cultivated the habit of saying some kind word of those whom you do not admire, you will be neither successful nor happy"
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The subtext is pure Napoleon Hill: success is social engineering. In Hill’s universe, happiness and achievement aren’t just inner states; they’re outcomes of managing relationships, reputation, and your own mental climate. “Some kind word” is small on purpose. It’s not “praise,” which implies agreement, or “admiration,” which implies hierarchy. It’s the minimum viable generosity that keeps you from becoming the kind of person who leaks superiority in every room and then wonders why doors don’t open.
There’s also a pragmatic morality at work. Hill frames kindness as a prerequisite for “successful,” not merely “good.” That’s a very 20th-century American move: ethics sold as performance enhancement. Context matters here; Hill wrote for an audience trying to climb, network, sell, and be liked in a booming, status-conscious culture. The line flatters the reader’s ambition while quietly indicting their pettiness: if you can’t find one decent thing to say about someone you dismiss, you’re not principled, you’re just trapped in your own rankings.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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Hill, Napolean. (2026, January 16). Until you have cultivated the habit of saying some kind word of those whom you do not admire, you will be neither successful nor happy. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/until-you-have-cultivated-the-habit-of-saying-134238/
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Hill, Napolean. "Until you have cultivated the habit of saying some kind word of those whom you do not admire, you will be neither successful nor happy." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/until-you-have-cultivated-the-habit-of-saying-134238/.
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"Until you have cultivated the habit of saying some kind word of those whom you do not admire, you will be neither successful nor happy." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/until-you-have-cultivated-the-habit-of-saying-134238/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









