"Upon receiving my notification of acceptance to the university, my parents noticed that they were obliged to submit to the university, among other things, a copy of my official family register. After much mental anguish, they decided to inform me of the secret of my birth"
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The “official family register” (koseki) is doing most of the cultural work. It’s not just paperwork; it’s Japan’s state-backed ledger of legitimacy, lineage, and belonging. When a life can be audited by a document, the private self is never fully private. Tanaka’s phrase “among other things” is a sly understatement that mimics how institutions normalize invasive demands: the form doesn’t feel like an interrogation because it’s formatted like a checklist.
Then the sentence pivots to “much mental anguish,” but even that anguish is framed as a decision-making process, as if shame can be managed through deliberation. The parents “decided to inform me” - a verb that makes revelation sound like a scheduled briefing. Subtext: secrecy wasn’t a single lie; it was an ongoing strategy, maintained until the outside world made it costly.
Coming from a scientist, the passage reads like a case study in how systems expose the human variables we try to control. Acceptance into the future triggers an audit of the past; merit and identity collide. The real sting is that the truth isn’t summoned by intimacy, but by an institution’s demand for proof.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Tanaka, Koichi. (2026, January 17). Upon receiving my notification of acceptance to the university, my parents noticed that they were obliged to submit to the university, among other things, a copy of my official family register. After much mental anguish, they decided to inform me of the secret of my birth. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/upon-receiving-my-notification-of-acceptance-to-48910/
Chicago Style
Tanaka, Koichi. "Upon receiving my notification of acceptance to the university, my parents noticed that they were obliged to submit to the university, among other things, a copy of my official family register. After much mental anguish, they decided to inform me of the secret of my birth." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/upon-receiving-my-notification-of-acceptance-to-48910/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Upon receiving my notification of acceptance to the university, my parents noticed that they were obliged to submit to the university, among other things, a copy of my official family register. After much mental anguish, they decided to inform me of the secret of my birth." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/upon-receiving-my-notification-of-acceptance-to-48910/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






