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Marriage Quote by Brigitte Bardot

"Vadim was both my teacher and my husband. I placed myself entirely in his hands"

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There is a chilling neatness to how Bardot stacks the roles: teacher, husband, then the final surrender that makes the first two feel less like romance and more like a hierarchy. “Teacher” isn’t just affectionate; it smuggles in a power arrangement where one person knows and the other submits. By the time she lands on “I placed myself entirely in his hands,” the sentence stops being descriptive and starts reading like a self-written contract: total trust, total dependency, total absolution from having to steer her own life.

Coming from Bardot, the line carries extra voltage because her public image was built on the fantasy of liberated erotic autonomy. The subtext flips that script. This isn’t the star as untouchable icon; it’s a young woman narrating how fame, desire, and mentorship can braid into something that looks like devotion but functions like control. “Entirely” does a lot of work: it signals not just love, but an erasure of borders - emotional, sexual, professional.

The phrasing also quietly manages blame. By emphasizing her own choice (“I placed myself”), Bardot frames the dynamic as voluntary, even noble, which can be a protective move in memoir: if it was chosen, it wasn’t taken. In the postwar entertainment world that produced Bardot, older male “guides” were often normalized as both gatekeepers and partners. This line captures that cultural pattern with unsettling intimacy: tenderness written in the language of capitulation.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bardot, Brigitte. (2026, January 17). Vadim was both my teacher and my husband. I placed myself entirely in his hands. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/vadim-was-both-my-teacher-and-my-husband-i-placed-39311/

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Bardot, Brigitte. "Vadim was both my teacher and my husband. I placed myself entirely in his hands." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/vadim-was-both-my-teacher-and-my-husband-i-placed-39311/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Vadim was both my teacher and my husband. I placed myself entirely in his hands." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/vadim-was-both-my-teacher-and-my-husband-i-placed-39311/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Brigitte Bardot (born September 28, 1934) is a Actress from France.

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