"Vadim was both my teacher and my husband. I placed myself entirely in his hands"
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Coming from Bardot, the line carries extra voltage because her public image was built on the fantasy of liberated erotic autonomy. The subtext flips that script. This isn’t the star as untouchable icon; it’s a young woman narrating how fame, desire, and mentorship can braid into something that looks like devotion but functions like control. “Entirely” does a lot of work: it signals not just love, but an erasure of borders - emotional, sexual, professional.
The phrasing also quietly manages blame. By emphasizing her own choice (“I placed myself”), Bardot frames the dynamic as voluntary, even noble, which can be a protective move in memoir: if it was chosen, it wasn’t taken. In the postwar entertainment world that produced Bardot, older male “guides” were often normalized as both gatekeepers and partners. This line captures that cultural pattern with unsettling intimacy: tenderness written in the language of capitulation.
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| Topic | Husband & Wife |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bardot, Brigitte. (2026, January 17). Vadim was both my teacher and my husband. I placed myself entirely in his hands. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/vadim-was-both-my-teacher-and-my-husband-i-placed-39311/
Chicago Style
Bardot, Brigitte. "Vadim was both my teacher and my husband. I placed myself entirely in his hands." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/vadim-was-both-my-teacher-and-my-husband-i-placed-39311/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Vadim was both my teacher and my husband. I placed myself entirely in his hands." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/vadim-was-both-my-teacher-and-my-husband-i-placed-39311/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.






