"Waiting, waiting, waiting. All my life, I've been waiting for my life to begin, as if somehow my life was ahead of me, and that someday I would arrive at it"
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The killer subtext sits in the phrase “as if somehow my life was ahead of me.” It exposes a common fantasy: that there’s a more authentic version of you scheduled to appear once you’ve earned it, fixed yourself, found the right job, the right body, the right relationship, the right moment. Manheim, an actress who came of age in an industry obsessed with youth, thinness, and neat story arcs, is implicitly naming how institutions teach people to treat their present selves as provisional. You’re always rehearsing for the real role.
“And that someday I would arrive at it” lands like a quiet indictment of motivational culture and of show business mythology in particular: the idea that life starts when you “make it.” Arrival becomes a mirage; the destination keeps moving because it was never a place, just a coping mechanism for uncertainty.
The intent isn’t to shame the listener for waiting. It’s to puncture the glamour of delay, to make the cost audible. In one breath, she turns “later” into the most dangerous kind of fiction: the one that feels responsible.
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| Topic | Live in the Moment |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Manheim, Camryn. (2026, January 15). Waiting, waiting, waiting. All my life, I've been waiting for my life to begin, as if somehow my life was ahead of me, and that someday I would arrive at it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/waiting-waiting-waiting-all-my-life-ive-been-141822/
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Manheim, Camryn. "Waiting, waiting, waiting. All my life, I've been waiting for my life to begin, as if somehow my life was ahead of me, and that someday I would arrive at it." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/waiting-waiting-waiting-all-my-life-ive-been-141822/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Waiting, waiting, waiting. All my life, I've been waiting for my life to begin, as if somehow my life was ahead of me, and that someday I would arrive at it." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/waiting-waiting-waiting-all-my-life-ive-been-141822/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.









