"War is wretched beyond description, and only a fool or a fraud could sentimentalize its cruel reality"
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War shatters bodies, families, and the moral bearings that keep ordinary life intact. Calling it wretched beyond description recognizes not only the physical carnage but also the psychic damage and moral compromises that language cannot fully capture. When sentimentality enters, it smooths over the agony, turning horror into a tale of heroism and destiny, and John McCain refuses that soft focus. Only a fool or a fraud would wrap cruelty in comforting myths: the fool out of ignorance, the fraud out of calculation.
McCain earned the right to be unsparing. As a Navy pilot shot down over Hanoi, he survived years of imprisonment and torture. That ordeal hardened his skepticism about easy talk of glory and later animated his leadership against torture and euphemism. He was no pacifist; he believed in American power and sometimes supported wars others challenged. Yet his lived experience demanded that decisions about force be made with eyes open to the price paid by soldiers and civilians alike, including wounds that do not bleed but do not heal.
The line also rebukes political and cultural habits that romanticize combat: speeches that promise quick, clean victories; movies that make carnage look exhilarating; bureaucratic jargon that sanitizes killing as collateral damage. Sentimentality is more than sweetness; it is a moral dodge, a way to claim righteousness without facing consequences. It numbs the public and lowers the threshold for launching and prolonging wars.
What remains is a standard of honesty. If war is sometimes necessary, it is still a tragedy, not an adventure. Leaders have a duty to speak plainly about risks and tradeoffs, and citizens have a duty to resist narratives that flatter rather than inform. McCain’s admonition demands sobriety: honor courage without romanticizing violence, recognize sacrifice without turning it into spectacle, and hold power to account precisely because the reality of war cannot be tidied up by sentiment.
McCain earned the right to be unsparing. As a Navy pilot shot down over Hanoi, he survived years of imprisonment and torture. That ordeal hardened his skepticism about easy talk of glory and later animated his leadership against torture and euphemism. He was no pacifist; he believed in American power and sometimes supported wars others challenged. Yet his lived experience demanded that decisions about force be made with eyes open to the price paid by soldiers and civilians alike, including wounds that do not bleed but do not heal.
The line also rebukes political and cultural habits that romanticize combat: speeches that promise quick, clean victories; movies that make carnage look exhilarating; bureaucratic jargon that sanitizes killing as collateral damage. Sentimentality is more than sweetness; it is a moral dodge, a way to claim righteousness without facing consequences. It numbs the public and lowers the threshold for launching and prolonging wars.
What remains is a standard of honesty. If war is sometimes necessary, it is still a tragedy, not an adventure. Leaders have a duty to speak plainly about risks and tradeoffs, and citizens have a duty to resist narratives that flatter rather than inform. McCain’s admonition demands sobriety: honor courage without romanticizing violence, recognize sacrifice without turning it into spectacle, and hold power to account precisely because the reality of war cannot be tidied up by sentiment.
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