"Watch your manner of speech if you wish to develop a peaceful state of mind. Start each day by affirming peaceful, contented and happy attitudes and your days will tend to be pleasant and successful"
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The subtext is equal parts empowerment and burden. Peale flatters the reader with agency: peace is available on demand, starting at breakfast, if you’ll just choose the right “attitudes.” Yet the promise (“pleasant and successful”) quietly ties inner calm to external achievement, making tranquility another KPI. If your day isn’t going well, the implication is that you failed the morning ritual, failed to curate your mental feed. That can soothe in chaotic times, and it can also slide into spiritualized self-blame.
Context matters. Peale’s “positive thinking” rose alongside postwar optimism, corporate culture, and suburban respectability - a moment hungry for methods that turned anxiety into attitude. His language merges pulpit reassurance with the cadence of a training manual: affirm, start, tend, successful. It works because it offers a simple, repeatable practice and a comforting causal story in a world that often refuses neat causality. The irony is that peace is framed not as acceptance of uncertainty, but as a daily performance of certainty.
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Peale, Norman Vincent. (2026, January 17). Watch your manner of speech if you wish to develop a peaceful state of mind. Start each day by affirming peaceful, contented and happy attitudes and your days will tend to be pleasant and successful. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/watch-your-manner-of-speech-if-you-wish-to-81868/
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Peale, Norman Vincent. "Watch your manner of speech if you wish to develop a peaceful state of mind. Start each day by affirming peaceful, contented and happy attitudes and your days will tend to be pleasant and successful." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/watch-your-manner-of-speech-if-you-wish-to-81868/.
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"Watch your manner of speech if you wish to develop a peaceful state of mind. Start each day by affirming peaceful, contented and happy attitudes and your days will tend to be pleasant and successful." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/watch-your-manner-of-speech-if-you-wish-to-81868/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.









