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Daily Inspiration Quote by Lynette Fromme

"We all came from houses with doors, doors that were supposed to be closed when there were things going on that we weren't supposed to see, and when our pants were down"

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It lands like a grubby little parable about privacy, then swerves into a confession about the ways privacy is manufactured - and violated. Fromme’s image of “houses with doors” isn’t nostalgic; it’s accusatory. Doors are presented as technology for managing shame: shut them when “things” happen, shut them when bodies are exposed, shut them when adults want to pretend nothing is wrong. The line is funny in a bleak, locker-room way, but the joke has teeth. It suggests that what families call decency is often just concealment, and that children are trained early to understand the rules: some realities are off-limits, some questions are punishable, some sights are formative precisely because they’re forbidden.

The subtext is about social conditioning. “Supposed to be closed” implies an external script - adults enforcing boundaries not just to protect kids, but to protect themselves from being seen. Pairing “things going on” with “when our pants were down” collapses the moral hierarchy between sexual exposure and other kinds of domestic secrecy: violence, exploitation, addiction, hypocrisy. The sentence leaves “things” vague on purpose, letting it expand to whatever a listener suspects is hidden behind a door.

Context matters because Fromme is not a neutral observer; she’s a Manson Family devotee who later attempted to assassinate President Ford. Read through that biography, the quote becomes a cracked origin story: a worldview in which authority is untrustworthy, the home is a stage set, and transgression is less a break from normal life than an extension of it. It’s the language of someone explaining how “normal” taught her to look for the locked room.

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Fromme, Lynette. (2026, January 15). We all came from houses with doors, doors that were supposed to be closed when there were things going on that we weren't supposed to see, and when our pants were down. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-all-came-from-houses-with-doors-doors-that-147543/

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Fromme, Lynette. "We all came from houses with doors, doors that were supposed to be closed when there were things going on that we weren't supposed to see, and when our pants were down." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-all-came-from-houses-with-doors-doors-that-147543/.

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"We all came from houses with doors, doors that were supposed to be closed when there were things going on that we weren't supposed to see, and when our pants were down." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-all-came-from-houses-with-doors-doors-that-147543/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Lynette Fromme

Lynette Fromme (born October 22, 1948) is a Criminal from USA.

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