"We all came from houses with doors, doors that were supposed to be closed when there were things going on that we weren't supposed to see, and when our pants were down"
About this Quote
The subtext is about social conditioning. “Supposed to be closed” implies an external script - adults enforcing boundaries not just to protect kids, but to protect themselves from being seen. Pairing “things going on” with “when our pants were down” collapses the moral hierarchy between sexual exposure and other kinds of domestic secrecy: violence, exploitation, addiction, hypocrisy. The sentence leaves “things” vague on purpose, letting it expand to whatever a listener suspects is hidden behind a door.
Context matters because Fromme is not a neutral observer; she’s a Manson Family devotee who later attempted to assassinate President Ford. Read through that biography, the quote becomes a cracked origin story: a worldview in which authority is untrustworthy, the home is a stage set, and transgression is less a break from normal life than an extension of it. It’s the language of someone explaining how “normal” taught her to look for the locked room.
Quote Details
| Topic | Family |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Fromme, Lynette. (2026, January 15). We all came from houses with doors, doors that were supposed to be closed when there were things going on that we weren't supposed to see, and when our pants were down. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-all-came-from-houses-with-doors-doors-that-147543/
Chicago Style
Fromme, Lynette. "We all came from houses with doors, doors that were supposed to be closed when there were things going on that we weren't supposed to see, and when our pants were down." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-all-came-from-houses-with-doors-doors-that-147543/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We all came from houses with doors, doors that were supposed to be closed when there were things going on that we weren't supposed to see, and when our pants were down." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-all-came-from-houses-with-doors-doors-that-147543/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



