"We all just kinda did everything we thought we were supposed to do and girls dated the guys they were supposed to and did things with the guys they were supposed to"
About this Quote
The intent isn’t to confess naïveté; it’s to map the machinery of compliance. “We all” spreads responsibility across a whole environment - peers, parents, managers, tabloids, directors - without letting any one villain steal the scene. That’s the subtext: the most effective pressure doesn’t arrive as threat, it arrives as expectation. Girls “dated the guys” they were meant to, “did things” they were meant to - and that vague euphemism is doing work. It gestures toward sexual boundaries without turning the line into a courtroom brief, capturing how coercion often hides behind imprecision, awkwardness, and the desire not to make things “a big deal.”
Context matters because Wood is a public figure who grew up inside industries that monetize youth, desirability, and coupledom as a storyline. In Hollywood, dating isn’t just personal; it’s branding, networking, access. Her casual diction (“kinda,” “just”) reads like realism, but it also exposes how easily harm can be minimized while it’s happening. The power of the quote is its banality: it shows how a culture can steer people into choices they don’t quite choose, then call the outcome romance, maturity, or “what girls do.”
Quote Details
| Topic | Romantic |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Wood, Evan Rachel. (2026, January 15). We all just kinda did everything we thought we were supposed to do and girls dated the guys they were supposed to and did things with the guys they were supposed to. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-all-just-kinda-did-everything-we-thought-we-162754/
Chicago Style
Wood, Evan Rachel. "We all just kinda did everything we thought we were supposed to do and girls dated the guys they were supposed to and did things with the guys they were supposed to." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-all-just-kinda-did-everything-we-thought-we-162754/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We all just kinda did everything we thought we were supposed to do and girls dated the guys they were supposed to and did things with the guys they were supposed to." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-all-just-kinda-did-everything-we-thought-we-162754/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.




