"We all like stories that make us cry. It's so nice to feel sad when you've nothing in particular to feel sad about"
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The subtext is less about sentimentality than control. “When you’ve nothing in particular to feel sad about” points to the guilt of the comfortable: the sense that a life spared catastrophe still contains an ache looking for an object. Stories provide an alibi. They let you access intensity without consequence, to “earn” tears without having to explain them. That’s not cynicism; it’s an educator’s observation about how humans learn empathy and self-recognition through proxies. Fiction becomes a kind of emotional gymnasium, where you exercise capacities you might otherwise neglect.
Context matters: Sullivan worked in a world where public feeling was being newly organized by mass print culture, melodrama, and moral instruction. As Helen Keller’s teacher, she also understood how narrative can translate sensation into meaning. Her insight anticipates our current appetite for prestige tragedy and “sad playlists”: curated heartbreak as self-care. The line lands because it refuses to romanticize suffering while admitting the strange relief of feeling something, safely, on purpose.
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| Topic | Sadness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Sullivan, Anne. (2026, January 18). We all like stories that make us cry. It's so nice to feel sad when you've nothing in particular to feel sad about. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-all-like-stories-that-make-us-cry-its-so-nice-5158/
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Sullivan, Anne. "We all like stories that make us cry. It's so nice to feel sad when you've nothing in particular to feel sad about." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-all-like-stories-that-make-us-cry-its-so-nice-5158/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We all like stories that make us cry. It's so nice to feel sad when you've nothing in particular to feel sad about." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-all-like-stories-that-make-us-cry-its-so-nice-5158/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






