"We all must live our lives always feeling, always thinking the moment has arrived"
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What makes it sting is the tension inside “always feeling, always thinking.” Chapman is allergic to the fantasy that passion alone saves you, or that cold rationality will guide you cleanly out of trouble. Her characters - the strivers, the stuck, the ones trying to out-run poverty, bad love, or dead-end work - are caught between emotion and analysis, urgency and exhaustion. “Always” reads less like empowerment than survival: a constant vigilance people adopt when the world won’t slow down long enough to let them plan.
Context matters because Chapman’s songwriting grew famous for its plainspoken realism, especially in late-80s America: recession shadows, fraying social trust, the promise of mobility turning into a trap. Against that backdrop, “the moment has arrived” becomes a critique of delayed dreams. It’s also a subtle rebuke to spectatorship. You don’t get to stand outside your own life waiting for the “right time.” The right time is the one that’s already here, demanding a decision.
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| Topic | Live in the Moment |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Chapman, Tracy. (2026, January 17). We all must live our lives always feeling, always thinking the moment has arrived. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-all-must-live-our-lives-always-feeling-always-78969/
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Chapman, Tracy. "We all must live our lives always feeling, always thinking the moment has arrived." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-all-must-live-our-lives-always-feeling-always-78969/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We all must live our lives always feeling, always thinking the moment has arrived." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-all-must-live-our-lives-always-feeling-always-78969/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











