"We all need to look into the dark side of our nature - that's where the energy is, the passion. People are afraid of that because it holds pieces of us we're busy denying"
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The subtext turns on her sly inversion of morality. Darkness is usually framed as rot or danger. She calls it “energy” and “passion,” reclaiming it as vitality rather than stain. That rhetorical move is doing two things at once: indicting a culture that rewards cheerfulness and composure, and warning that repression doesn’t erase the material, it just drives it underground where it leaks out sideways - cruelty dressed as righteousness, judgment masquerading as taste, “good behavior” that’s really fear.
Her phrasing, “pieces of us we’re busy denying,” is especially telling: denial isn’t an accident, it’s labor. The context is a writer who built plots from secrets, contradictions, and the private logic people hide even from themselves. Look into the dark, she’s saying, not to romanticize harm, but to reclaim agency. If you don’t know what you’re capable of, you’re easy to manipulate - by others, and by your own unexamined urges.
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Grafton, Sue. (2026, January 15). We all need to look into the dark side of our nature - that's where the energy is, the passion. People are afraid of that because it holds pieces of us we're busy denying. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-all-need-to-look-into-the-dark-side-of-our-159970/
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Grafton, Sue. "We all need to look into the dark side of our nature - that's where the energy is, the passion. People are afraid of that because it holds pieces of us we're busy denying." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-all-need-to-look-into-the-dark-side-of-our-159970/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We all need to look into the dark side of our nature - that's where the energy is, the passion. People are afraid of that because it holds pieces of us we're busy denying." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-all-need-to-look-into-the-dark-side-of-our-159970/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.












