"We all remember where we were and we all remember what we were doing. I had a brother in New York, an uncle, lots of friends in New York. It made me angry, it made me sad; what could I do"
About this Quote
The emotional sequence is blunt and unpolished: anger, sadness, then the stranded question - “what could I do.” That last clause isn’t rhetorical flourish; it’s the point. It captures the signature frustration of watching history happen in real time from far away, especially for civilians whose tools are sympathy and attention rather than policy or rescue. In an actor’s mouth, it also reads as a quiet refusal of performance. There’s no attempt to elevate the moment into wisdom or patriotism, just the awkward honesty of impotence.
Contextually, this sits in the post-9/11 language of collective recall, when people were expected to narrate their location as proof of being properly shaken. Bottoms’ intent is to authenticate grief without exploiting it: he joins the chorus, then admits the only real action available was feeling it, and living with that helplessness.
Quote Details
| Topic | Sadness |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bottoms, Timothy. (2026, January 16). We all remember where we were and we all remember what we were doing. I had a brother in New York, an uncle, lots of friends in New York. It made me angry, it made me sad; what could I do. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-all-remember-where-we-were-and-we-all-remember-131101/
Chicago Style
Bottoms, Timothy. "We all remember where we were and we all remember what we were doing. I had a brother in New York, an uncle, lots of friends in New York. It made me angry, it made me sad; what could I do." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-all-remember-where-we-were-and-we-all-remember-131101/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We all remember where we were and we all remember what we were doing. I had a brother in New York, an uncle, lots of friends in New York. It made me angry, it made me sad; what could I do." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-all-remember-where-we-were-and-we-all-remember-131101/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.





