"We all want heroes, and we all want somebody to look up to"
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The first clause (“We all want heroes”) is desire at a distance: heroes are large, symbolic, safely framed. The second (“we all want somebody to look up to”) narrows the camera to something more intimate and everyday. A “hero” can be a poster on the wall; “somebody” suggests a real person whose choices might rub off on you. Orrico is pointing to the social mechanics of influence: we borrow courage, style, faith, even self-worth from the people we elevate.
The repetition of “we all want” does two things at once. It softens the statement into a communal shrug, and it pressures the listener to admit they’re part of the crowd. No one gets to claim they’re above fandom, mentorship, or the craving for guidance. In a celebrity-saturated moment when young artists were asked to be aspirational but uncontroversial, Orrico’s phrasing reads like both comfort and caution: if we’re wired to look up to someone, we should choose carefully, because the act of looking up also puts us in a position to be let down.
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| Topic | Leadership |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Orrico, Stacie. (2026, February 18). We all want heroes, and we all want somebody to look up to. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-all-want-heroes-and-we-all-want-somebody-to-75794/
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Orrico, Stacie. "We all want heroes, and we all want somebody to look up to." FixQuotes. February 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-all-want-heroes-and-we-all-want-somebody-to-75794/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We all want heroes, and we all want somebody to look up to." FixQuotes, 18 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-all-want-heroes-and-we-all-want-somebody-to-75794/. Accessed 26 Feb. 2026.







