"We always knew how to honor fallen soldiers. They were killed for our sake, they went out on our mission. But how are we to mourn a random man killed in a terrorist attack while sitting in a cafe? How do you mourn a housewife who got on a bus and never returned?"
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Then he snaps the frame. A "random man" in a cafe, a housewife on a bus: deaths that refuse enlistment into purpose. Terrorism, in Yehoshua's Israeli context of buses and coffee shops as recurring targets, isn't just violence; it's violence aimed at the very idea that death can be organized. The attack produces casualties with no sanctioned narrative arc, no uniform, no battlefield. That randomness is the point - it colonizes the mundane and makes the everyday feel complicit, exposed.
The questions are the engine. Yehoshua isn't asking for etiquette tips; he's diagnosing a crisis of mourning. If soldier-death is legible, civilian-death is an indictment: it suggests the social contract can't protect the simplest routines. His subtext is unsettlingly double-edged. He honors soldiers, yes, but he also implies that the state has built emotional infrastructure for one kind of loss while leaving another kind to private shock. The result is grief that can't be redeemed by rhetoric, only endured - and a society forced to admit how thin its stories are against the arbitrary.
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| Topic | Legacy & Remembrance |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Yehoshua, A. B. (2026, January 16). We always knew how to honor fallen soldiers. They were killed for our sake, they went out on our mission. But how are we to mourn a random man killed in a terrorist attack while sitting in a cafe? How do you mourn a housewife who got on a bus and never returned? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-always-knew-how-to-honor-fallen-soldiers-they-122230/
Chicago Style
Yehoshua, A. B. "We always knew how to honor fallen soldiers. They were killed for our sake, they went out on our mission. But how are we to mourn a random man killed in a terrorist attack while sitting in a cafe? How do you mourn a housewife who got on a bus and never returned?" FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-always-knew-how-to-honor-fallen-soldiers-they-122230/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We always knew how to honor fallen soldiers. They were killed for our sake, they went out on our mission. But how are we to mourn a random man killed in a terrorist attack while sitting in a cafe? How do you mourn a housewife who got on a bus and never returned?" FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-always-knew-how-to-honor-fallen-soldiers-they-122230/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



