"We are all in this together, by ourselves"
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The intent is not to sneer at solidarity, but to puncture the way we market it. Tomlin has always played characters who understand systems from the inside - secretaries, switchboard operators, oddballs who see the machinery while everyone else nods along. That sensibility is baked in here: society runs on shared conditions, yet responsibility and pain get individualized. You can be wrapped in the same storm as everyone else and still feel like you’re the only one bailing water.
Subtext: modern life offers group identity without group care. We share news cycles, hashtags, and a language of togetherness, but the actual work of survival - paying rent, managing illness, making sense of grief - happens in rooms with closed doors. The line also acknowledges a quieter truth: even when community shows up, no one can fully inhabit your interior life. Connection is real, but it’s partial; loneliness is not a personal failure so much as a structural feature.
That’s why it works. It lets you laugh, then realizes you’re laughing at something accurate. Tomlin turns a comfort phrase into a mirror.
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Tomlin, Lily. "We are all in this together, by ourselves." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-all-in-this-together-by-ourselves-28633/.
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"We are all in this together, by ourselves." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-all-in-this-together-by-ourselves-28633/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.











