"We are all of us failures, at least, the best of us are"
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The subtext is both consoling and quietly savage. Consoling, because it normalizes the private shame behind public achievement: the artist who hears the audience laugh and still thinks about the line that didn’t sing, the adult who performs competence while feeling unfinished. Savage, because it implies that “success” is often just a measure of how modest your ideals are, or how willing you are to settle for applause.
Context matters: Barrie, the playwright behind Peter Pan, lived in a world of Edwardian respectability where accomplishment and social polish were currencies. His work is obsessed with the costs of growing up, with longing dressed as whimsy. This sentence reads like an adult’s aside from the wings: maturity isn’t mastery; it’s learning to live with the gap between what you wanted to be and what you can manage. The best people keep that gap visible, because it keeps them honest.
Quote Details
| Topic | Failure |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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Barrie, James M. (2026, January 17). We are all of us failures, at least, the best of us are. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-all-of-us-failures-at-least-the-best-of-us-41379/
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Barrie, James M. "We are all of us failures, at least, the best of us are." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-all-of-us-failures-at-least-the-best-of-us-41379/.
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"We are all of us failures, at least, the best of us are." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-all-of-us-failures-at-least-the-best-of-us-41379/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











