"We are all, right now, living the life we choose"
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The line lands like a self-help slogan until you remember who’s saying it: Peter McWilliams, a contrarian writer best known for arguing that personal freedom isn’t a vibe, it’s a battleground. “We are all, right now” is a quiet act of aggression. It drags the reader out of dreamy futurism and into the present tense, where excuses live. Not someday, not after the promotion, not once you’ve healed. Now. The phrasing is courtroom simple, built to make denial sound childish.
The provocation is in “choose.” McWilliams isn’t naive about how the world constrains people; he’s deliberately compressing everything into a single, uncomfortable claim of agency. That compression is the rhetorical trick: it forces you to account for the ways you comply. If you hate your job, your relationship, your city, your habits, the line implies you’re not just trapped - you’re participating. Even “staying” becomes an action, not a default. That’s the subtext: passivity is still a decision, just one you’ve outsourced to fear, inertia, or social scripts.
Context sharpens the edge. McWilliams’s life intersected with the culture wars around drugs, illness, and bodily autonomy; he wrote under the shadow of institutions that punish certain “choices” and label others as deviance. Read there, the quote doubles as both empowerment and indictment: you can reclaim your life, but you can’t pretend you’re not already coauthoring it. It works because it offers no alibi - and dares you to live like that’s true.
The provocation is in “choose.” McWilliams isn’t naive about how the world constrains people; he’s deliberately compressing everything into a single, uncomfortable claim of agency. That compression is the rhetorical trick: it forces you to account for the ways you comply. If you hate your job, your relationship, your city, your habits, the line implies you’re not just trapped - you’re participating. Even “staying” becomes an action, not a default. That’s the subtext: passivity is still a decision, just one you’ve outsourced to fear, inertia, or social scripts.
Context sharpens the edge. McWilliams’s life intersected with the culture wars around drugs, illness, and bodily autonomy; he wrote under the shadow of institutions that punish certain “choices” and label others as deviance. Read there, the quote doubles as both empowerment and indictment: you can reclaim your life, but you can’t pretend you’re not already coauthoring it. It works because it offers no alibi - and dares you to live like that’s true.
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| Topic | Free Will & Fate |
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