"We are all the same person trying to shake hands with our self"
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The intent reads as activist strategy disguised as hippie whimsy. If the other is basically you, cruelty becomes self-harm, and politics becomes a form of self-care with consequences. The subtext is also self-mocking: humans keep inventing elaborate ideologies to accomplish what a simple gesture would do, if only we could coordinate. “Trying” matters; unity isn’t a settled truth, it’s an ongoing, error-prone practice.
Context sharpens it. Wavy Gravy emerged from the counterculture where theater, protest, and spiritual play overlapped; his persona always treated humor as a delivery system for ethics. In that world, sincerity alone was too easy to co-opt, but comedy could slip past defenses. The phrase “shake hands” evokes truce-making, coalition building, and basic decency, implying that the work of movements is less about defeating enemies than about recognizing projections: the “them” we fight is often our own fear, ego, or hunger for belonging wearing a different outfit.
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Gravy, Wavy. (2026, January 15). We are all the same person trying to shake hands with our self. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-all-the-same-person-trying-to-shake-hands-107719/
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Gravy, Wavy. "We are all the same person trying to shake hands with our self." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-all-the-same-person-trying-to-shake-hands-107719/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We are all the same person trying to shake hands with our self." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-all-the-same-person-trying-to-shake-hands-107719/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










