"We are all travelers in the wilderness of this world, and the best we can find in our travels is an honest friend"
About this Quote
The key move is the quiet demotion of everything else we’re trained to chase. Not riches, not certainty, not even happiness: “the best we can find” is simply an honest friend. That’s a hard-nosed definition of salvation, stripped of romance. “Honest” is doing a lot of work here. Stevenson isn’t selling companionship as a warm vibe; he’s naming honesty as a tool for orientation. In a wilderness, you need someone who tells you where you are, even when the truth stings, even when it costs them. The subtext is that most relationships fail precisely because they become navigation by flattery.
There’s also a Victorian edge to it: an era of empire, mobility, and social masks, where “travel” was both literal and moral theater. Stevenson, chronically ill and perpetually in motion, knew how quickly status and plans evaporate. The line argues that in a world you can’t fully control or understand, friendship is the one refuge that isn’t a mirage - not because it rescues you from the wilderness, but because it keeps you from getting lost alone.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Stevenson, Robert Louis. (2026, January 15). We are all travelers in the wilderness of this world, and the best we can find in our travels is an honest friend. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-all-travelers-in-the-wilderness-of-this-20858/
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Stevenson, Robert Louis. "We are all travelers in the wilderness of this world, and the best we can find in our travels is an honest friend." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-all-travelers-in-the-wilderness-of-this-20858/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We are all travelers in the wilderness of this world, and the best we can find in our travels is an honest friend." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-all-travelers-in-the-wilderness-of-this-20858/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







