"We are all trying to balance our careers and children and give as much of ourselves and our time to them. You work and have a husband, and projects, and friends. It is a balancing act"
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Preston’s intent feels less like confession than solidarity. She’s speaking in the inclusive “we,” refusing the special pleading often granted to fame. That “we” is strategic: it recruits the listener into a shared struggle, flattening the hierarchy between actress and audience. The subtext is that no amount of success buys you extra hours; it just changes the costumes you wear while you’re running late.
There’s also a quiet negotiation of expectations embedded in the phrase “give as much of ourselves.” It’s not just time that gets rationed, but identity. The balancing act isn’t between two discrete boxes labeled “work” and “family”; it’s between versions of the self that all demand to be performed well. By naming “husband” alongside “projects” and “friends,” she signals a cultural moment where women are asked to be professionals, partners, mothers, and socially present - and to do it with gratitude.
The line lands because it refuses the fantasy of equilibrium. “Balancing act” implies constant correction, not a stable pose. The point isn’t that balance is achievable; it’s that the wobble is the real condition.
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| Topic | Work-Life Balance |
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Preston, Kelly. (2026, January 17). We are all trying to balance our careers and children and give as much of ourselves and our time to them. You work and have a husband, and projects, and friends. It is a balancing act. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-all-trying-to-balance-our-careers-and-61861/
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Preston, Kelly. "We are all trying to balance our careers and children and give as much of ourselves and our time to them. You work and have a husband, and projects, and friends. It is a balancing act." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-all-trying-to-balance-our-careers-and-61861/.
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"We are all trying to balance our careers and children and give as much of ourselves and our time to them. You work and have a husband, and projects, and friends. It is a balancing act." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-all-trying-to-balance-our-careers-and-61861/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







