"We are always getting ready to live but never living"
About this Quote
The intent is less scolding than diagnostic. Emerson, writing out of the Transcendentalist conviction that truth is encountered directly, not mediated through institutions or future credentials, targets the Puritan-tinged culture of deferred gratification and moral bookkeeping. The subtext: the future is an idol that keeps you compliant. If life is always about becoming worthy of life, you stay manageable - for employers, for churches, for social expectations, for your own anxious inner supervisor.
Rhetorically, the sentence works because it’s built on a trapdoor of tense. "Getting ready" is continuous motion; it implies progress without arrival. "Living" is blunt, immediate, almost embarrassingly simple. Emerson uses the contrast to expose how easily busyness masquerades as meaning. It’s also an attack on perfectionism before the term existed: the fantasy that once you have the right body, right partner, right savings account, right identity, then you’ll finally begin.
In an era of self-optimization and perpetual beta, Emerson reads like a warning label: the preparation can become the life, and the life can quietly never start.
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| Topic | Live in the Moment |
|---|---|
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Emerson, Ralph Waldo. (n.d.). We are always getting ready to live but never living. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-always-getting-ready-to-live-but-never-28882/
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