"We are born to exist, not to know, to be, not to assert ourselves"
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The second pairing sharpens the blade: “to be, not to assert ourselves.” Self-assertion is Cioran’s shorthand for the whole Western cult of agency - ambition, moral grandstanding, ideological certainty, even the heroic narrative of selfhood. He hears in it a noisy refusal to accept the basic conditions of existence: contingency, finitude, insignificance. The phrase “assert ourselves” also carries a faint moral sting, as if our constant self-advertisement isn’t just exhausting but vaguely indecent.
Context matters: Cioran wrote in the aftermath of Europe’s philosophical overconfidence colliding with catastrophe. Grand ideas didn’t just fail; they helped burn the house down. So his retreat into “exist” and “be” isn’t wellness minimalism. It’s an anti-triumphalist ethic: live without pretending you can conquer life with explanations, and resist turning the self into a fist. It’s bleak, yes, but also oddly liberating - a call to trade mastery for lucidity.
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| Topic | Meaning of Life |
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