"We are bound to lose Ireland in consequence of years of cruelty, stupidity and misgovernment and I would rather lose her as a friend than as a foe"
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The shrewdness is in the pivot: “I would rather lose her as a friend than as a foe.” “Lose” is doing double duty - an admission that the imperial relationship can’t be held by force, and a proposal to transform separation into alliance. It’s the rhetoric of damage control, but with a statesman’s eye on legacy. If coercion is the tradition, he’s offering consent as the last available instrument of authority.
Context matters: Gladstone is speaking in the long shadow of famine, land conflict, and the rise of Irish nationalism - years when British policy looked punitive, tone-deaf, or both. His subtext is aimed at Westminster as much as Dublin: keep governing Ireland badly and you won’t preserve the Union, you’ll manufacture a permanent enemy next door. Friendship here isn’t tenderness; it’s strategic foresight, a bid to trade domination for stability before history makes the choice for you.
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Gladstone, William E. (n.d.). We are bound to lose Ireland in consequence of years of cruelty, stupidity and misgovernment and I would rather lose her as a friend than as a foe. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-bound-to-lose-ireland-in-consequence-of-72651/
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Gladstone, William E. "We are bound to lose Ireland in consequence of years of cruelty, stupidity and misgovernment and I would rather lose her as a friend than as a foe." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-bound-to-lose-ireland-in-consequence-of-72651/.
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"We are bound to lose Ireland in consequence of years of cruelty, stupidity and misgovernment and I would rather lose her as a friend than as a foe." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-bound-to-lose-ireland-in-consequence-of-72651/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.






