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Life & Wisdom Quote by Charles Bukowski

"We are like roses that have never bothered to bloom when we should have bloomed and it is as if the sun has become disgusted with waiting"

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Bukowski turns self-neglect into botany, then makes nature itself lose patience. The image is bluntly romantic on the surface - roses, sun, bloom - but the machinery underneath is classic Bukowski: shame dressed up as lyricism, tenderness delivered with a hangover. “Never bothered to bloom” isn’t tragedy; it’s indictment. The failure is framed as choice, or at least as a kind of stubborn inertia, the particular sin of people who know they’re capable of something and still can’t be moved to do it.

The nastiest twist is the sun’s “disgust”. Bukowski personifies the universe not as cruel but as fed up, like a landlord who’s heard one too many excuses. That’s the subtext: time doesn’t punish you with thunderbolts; it just stops extending grace. Waiting ends. Chances expire. The warmth that once felt automatic starts to feel conditional.

Context matters because Bukowski’s poetry lives in the long aftermath of missed appointments with your own life: dead-end jobs, alcoholism, damaged love, the daily grind that makes ambition feel like a luxury item. He’s writing for the people who don’t get a heroic narrative, who suspect their prime slipped by while they were busy surviving or self-sabotaging. The rose is a sly rebuke to the cult of “potential”, that shiny modern consolation prize. Potential is only flattering until the sun gets “disgusted” - until the world’s indifference hardens into something that feels personal.

It works because it’s both cosmic and petty, beautiful and accusing. A romantic metaphor that doesn’t let you off the hook.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bukowski, Charles. (2026, February 10). We are like roses that have never bothered to bloom when we should have bloomed and it is as if the sun has become disgusted with waiting. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-like-roses-that-have-never-bothered-to-185228/

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Bukowski, Charles. "We are like roses that have never bothered to bloom when we should have bloomed and it is as if the sun has become disgusted with waiting." FixQuotes. February 10, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-like-roses-that-have-never-bothered-to-185228/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We are like roses that have never bothered to bloom when we should have bloomed and it is as if the sun has become disgusted with waiting." FixQuotes, 10 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-like-roses-that-have-never-bothered-to-185228/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Charles Bukowski

Charles Bukowski (August 16, 1920 - March 9, 1994) was a Poet from USA.

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