"We are not at peace with others because we are not at peace with ourselves, and we are not at peace with ourselves because we are not at peace with God"
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The subtext is bracingly anti-modern: your unrest is not primarily circumstantial. It’s ontological. Merton was writing as a Trappist monk and public intellectual in mid-century America, when the Cold War made “peace” a slogan used by both missile-builders and marchers. His move is to reclaim the word from geopolitics and return it to the conscience. That doesn’t make him naive about power; it makes him suspicious of peace-talk that’s detached from conversion, humility, and a reckoning with the ego.
There’s a gentle provocation here, too. By grounding peace in God, Merton is refusing the contemporary temptation to treat the self as a closed system: fix the mind, optimize the habits, curate the relationships. He insists the self is porous, answerable to something beyond appetite and self-justification. Read that way, the line becomes less a pious scold than a diagnosis: the conflicts we project outward often begin as an inner refusal to be addressed, corrected, and re-centered.
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Merton, Thomas. (n.d.). We are not at peace with others because we are not at peace with ourselves, and we are not at peace with ourselves because we are not at peace with God. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-not-at-peace-with-others-because-we-are-23978/
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Merton, Thomas. "We are not at peace with others because we are not at peace with ourselves, and we are not at peace with ourselves because we are not at peace with God." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-not-at-peace-with-others-because-we-are-23978/.
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"We are not at peace with others because we are not at peace with ourselves, and we are not at peace with ourselves because we are not at peace with God." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-not-at-peace-with-others-because-we-are-23978/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.














