"We are not permitted to choose the frame of our destiny. But what we put into it is ours"
About this Quote
The second sentence pivots from resignation to responsibility. “But what we put into it is ours” rejects the cheap comfort of inevitability. He’s drawing a bright ethical line between conditions and conduct. You may not choose the arena, but you choose your posture inside it: restraint or vanity, courage or careerism, truth or euphemism. The possessive “ours” matters; it’s collective, not heroic individualism. It implies institutional character, too - what an organization, a state, or a public adds to a given crisis.
Subtextually, it’s also a rebuke to the diplomatic alibi: the tendency to blame “realities on the ground” for moral abdication. Hammarskjold doesn’t deny realities; he refuses to let them become an excuse. That’s why the quote endures. It offers a grown-up consolation - not that the world is fair, but that agency survives inside limits, and integrity is one of the few things no superpower can veto.
Quote Details
| Topic | Free Will & Fate |
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| Source | Attributed to Dag Hammarskjöld; commonly cited as from his posthumous diary 'Markings' (Vägmärken). See Wikiquote entry for the quotation. |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hammarskjold, Dag. (2026, January 14). We are not permitted to choose the frame of our destiny. But what we put into it is ours. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-not-permitted-to-choose-the-frame-of-our-5924/
Chicago Style
Hammarskjold, Dag. "We are not permitted to choose the frame of our destiny. But what we put into it is ours." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-not-permitted-to-choose-the-frame-of-our-5924/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We are not permitted to choose the frame of our destiny. But what we put into it is ours." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-not-permitted-to-choose-the-frame-of-our-5924/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.









