"We are rich only through what we give, and poor only through what we refuse"
About this Quote
The phrasing does the heavy lifting. "Only" is the pressure point: it denies every other definition of success. "Through what we give" suggests wealth as a pathway, not a vault; richness happens in the act, not after the act. Then he sharpens the blade with "refuse". Not "lack", not "can’t", but a willful contraction of the self. Refusal is moral posture, a closing of the hand. Emerson’s subtext is that scarcity is often chosen long before it’s experienced: we become poor by narrowing our obligations, our sympathies, our risk.
Context matters. Emerson is writing in the shadow of early American capitalism, when market expansion made accumulation feel like destiny and self-reliance could curdle into self-absorption. He’s the Transcendentalist who insists the soul has its own economy, and its currency is action aligned with principle. The quote also quietly polices motive: giving isn’t merely altruism; it’s self-preservation. You give to remain human, to stay porous to the world. Refuse long enough, and you don’t just keep your money - you keep yourself.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Emerson, Ralph Waldo. (2026, January 15). We are rich only through what we give, and poor only through what we refuse. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-rich-only-through-what-we-give-and-poor-28885/
Chicago Style
Emerson, Ralph Waldo. "We are rich only through what we give, and poor only through what we refuse." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-rich-only-through-what-we-give-and-poor-28885/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We are rich only through what we give, and poor only through what we refuse." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-are-rich-only-through-what-we-give-and-poor-28885/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.







