"We are very much what others think of us. The reception our observations meet with gives us courage to proceed, or damps our efforts"
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The intent is almost surgical. Hazlitt, a critic by trade and temperament, knew that ideas don’t rise on merit alone; they rise on audiences, gatekeepers, salons, editors, and the quiet tyranny of “how it plays.” He’s describing a psychology of dependence that polite culture prefers to deny. “Observations” makes it sound modest, even empirical, but the real subject is vulnerability: to be seen is to be evaluated, and evaluation decides what you dare to attempt next.
The subtext has a sting. If we are “very much what others think of us,” then character is partly outsourced. You can read it as empathy for the unheard and the ignored - the way a cold room can freeze good thinking mid-sentence. You can also read it as an indictment of conformist societies that reward the palatable and punish the strange, training people, over time, to stop reaching.
Context matters: Hazlitt wrote in a Britain thick with class codes, clubbable taste, and a rapidly expanding print culture where reputations were made and unmade in reviews. A critic in that ecosystem is both witness and participant, recording how collective judgment manufactures the person it claims merely to describe.
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