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Motherhood Quote by Kenny Loggins

"We busted a lot of family secrets with this. But to make a long story short, my parents relationship was built heavily on security issues for my Mom, and when my Dad couldn't provide security, the relationship unraveled"

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There is a peculiar kind of bravery in admitting your origin story isn’t romantic - it’s logistical. Kenny Loggins frames his parents’ marriage not as a great love derailed by fate, but as a contract stabilized by one person’s need to feel safe. The phrase “security issues” does a lot of work: it’s clinical enough to avoid melodrama, but blunt enough to puncture the sentimental mythology that often surrounds family, especially in the public imagination around a successful musician.

The first sentence signals the real stakes: “We busted a lot of family secrets with this.” That’s not just confession; it’s an account of rupture. “Busted” is active, almost violent, implying the secrets weren’t gently revealed, they were broken open - likely by therapy, a documentary, a memoir, or simply adulthood’s inevitable audit of childhood narratives. Loggins positions himself as both participant and witness, someone paying the emotional cost of telling the truth.

Then he slips into the storyteller’s shield: “to make a long story short.” It’s a familiar move from artists who’ve spent careers turning messy feeling into three-minute songs. The compression is the point. He reduces a marriage to a single load-bearing beam: provision. When that beam fails, “the relationship unraveled” - a textile metaphor that suggests the collapse wasn’t sudden betrayal but gradual fraying, the slow exposure of what the relationship was made of.

The subtext lands uncomfortably: love, in his family’s case, may have been secondary to survival. In a culture that sells marriage as destiny, Loggins offers something closer to a backstage pass - the unpretty mechanism underneath.

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Loggins, Kenny. (2026, January 15). We busted a lot of family secrets with this. But to make a long story short, my parents relationship was built heavily on security issues for my Mom, and when my Dad couldn't provide security, the relationship unraveled. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-busted-a-lot-of-family-secrets-with-this-but-156500/

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Loggins, Kenny. "We busted a lot of family secrets with this. But to make a long story short, my parents relationship was built heavily on security issues for my Mom, and when my Dad couldn't provide security, the relationship unraveled." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-busted-a-lot-of-family-secrets-with-this-but-156500/.

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"We busted a lot of family secrets with this. But to make a long story short, my parents relationship was built heavily on security issues for my Mom, and when my Dad couldn't provide security, the relationship unraveled." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-busted-a-lot-of-family-secrets-with-this-but-156500/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.

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Kenny Loggins (born January 7, 1948) is a Musician from USA.

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