"We can consciously end our life almost anytime we choose. This ability is an endowment, like laughing and blushing, given to no other animal... in any given moment, by not exercising the option of suicide, we are choosing to live"
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The subtext isn’t nihilism so much as agency. McWilliams is trying to relocate the debate from “Should people do this?” to “What does it mean that we can?” His pivot - that every moment you don’t take the exit, you are choosing life - is a rhetorical judo move. It turns passive endurance into active consent. Life becomes not a default setting but a repeated decision, which can feel empowering to someone trapped in depression, addiction, chronic pain, or simply the weight of obligation. It also quietly indicts cultures that pretend the option doesn’t exist; denial, he implies, doesn’t protect anyone, it just strips people of honest language.
Context matters: McWilliams was a countercultural self-help and drug-policy writer whose later years were shaped by illness and a brutal legal fight over medical marijuana. Read against that backdrop, the line lands as an argument for dignity under coercion: when institutions control your body, the last uncontestable autonomy is the ability to stop. The unsettling brilliance is that he sells “choosing to live” by first insisting you could choose otherwise.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
McWilliams, Peter. (2026, January 16). We can consciously end our life almost anytime we choose. This ability is an endowment, like laughing and blushing, given to no other animal... in any given moment, by not exercising the option of suicide, we are choosing to live. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-can-consciously-end-our-life-almost-anytime-we-134460/
Chicago Style
McWilliams, Peter. "We can consciously end our life almost anytime we choose. This ability is an endowment, like laughing and blushing, given to no other animal... in any given moment, by not exercising the option of suicide, we are choosing to live." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-can-consciously-end-our-life-almost-anytime-we-134460/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We can consciously end our life almost anytime we choose. This ability is an endowment, like laughing and blushing, given to no other animal... in any given moment, by not exercising the option of suicide, we are choosing to live." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-can-consciously-end-our-life-almost-anytime-we-134460/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.










