"We can sit around and go, okay, is there really a plan, does somebody really know what's happening, is it all planned out, because sometimes it just seems too remarkable to me the things that have happened to me"
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What makes the line land is its conversational circling. “We can sit around and go” signals the low-stakes ritual of post-mortem meaning-making, the way people replay their own biographies like a highlight reel, looking for a hidden director. Then she toggles between skepticism (“is there really a plan”) and awe (“too remarkable to me”), capturing the emotional whiplash of sudden success: you know the industry is messy, but your own plot points feel improbably cinematic.
The subtext is gratitude with a protective edge. Calling the events “remarkable” lets her acknowledge luck without sounding self-congratulatory. It’s also a subtle refusal of the “mastermind” myth that celebrity culture loves: the idea that stars are strategic geniuses executing long arcs. In MacDowell’s version, the mystery is the point. Her phrasing invites the listener into a shared, slightly stunned intimacy: if it feels unreal to her, maybe we’re allowed to admit our lives don’t fully add up either.
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| Topic | Free Will & Fate |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
MacDowell, Andie. (2026, January 16). We can sit around and go, okay, is there really a plan, does somebody really know what's happening, is it all planned out, because sometimes it just seems too remarkable to me the things that have happened to me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-can-sit-around-and-go-okay-is-there-really-a-131971/
Chicago Style
MacDowell, Andie. "We can sit around and go, okay, is there really a plan, does somebody really know what's happening, is it all planned out, because sometimes it just seems too remarkable to me the things that have happened to me." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-can-sit-around-and-go-okay-is-there-really-a-131971/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We can sit around and go, okay, is there really a plan, does somebody really know what's happening, is it all planned out, because sometimes it just seems too remarkable to me the things that have happened to me." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-can-sit-around-and-go-okay-is-there-really-a-131971/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.


