"We can stay in Afghanistan and stabilize the situation, or we can get out and win, or we can get out and lose"
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The subtext is aimed less at Afghanistan than at an American audience anxious about decline. “We can stay…and stabilize” implies patience and stewardship, but it also slips in the idea that ongoing occupation is the responsible baseline. The two exit options are framed as scorekeeping, not policy: withdrawal is not evaluated by humanitarian outcomes, regional power balances, or Afghan self-determination, but by whether Americans get to narrate it as victory.
Context matters here because Afghanistan was the long war that embarrassed every narrative it touched. “Stabilize” became a floating signifier used to justify indefinite commitment even as “stability” remained undefined and repeatedly deferred. D’Souza’s triad mirrors a broader post-9/11 rhetorical pattern: if leaving risks “losing,” then staying becomes less a strategy than a refusal to accept limits. The sentence doesn’t invite deliberation; it pre-loads shame as the price of exit, making the real argument about identity, not outcomes.
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D'Souza, Dinesh. (2026, January 17). We can stay in Afghanistan and stabilize the situation, or we can get out and win, or we can get out and lose. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-can-stay-in-afghanistan-and-stabilize-the-66113/
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D'Souza, Dinesh. "We can stay in Afghanistan and stabilize the situation, or we can get out and win, or we can get out and lose." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-can-stay-in-afghanistan-and-stabilize-the-66113/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We can stay in Afghanistan and stabilize the situation, or we can get out and win, or we can get out and lose." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-can-stay-in-afghanistan-and-stabilize-the-66113/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




