"We cannot live only for ourselves. A thousand fibers connect us with our fellow men"
About this Quote
The phrase “a thousand fibers” does the real work. It’s tactile, almost anatomical, suggesting a social body held together by threads you can’t easily see or sever. “Fibers” implies tension as much as connection: you tug one strand and feel the pull elsewhere. That’s the subtext - moral responsibility isn’t optional, and neither is complicity. Even isolation is relational, a stance taken against others.
Context matters here: mid-19th-century America was swelling with industrial networks, maritime trade, and national expansion, all while relying on brutal systems of exploitation. Melville’s fiction is obsessed with what collective life costs and who pays. The quote compresses that preoccupation into a single image: society as an interlaced material, not a set of individuals politely coexisting. It works because it refuses the comforting idea that we can opt out; whether through commerce, violence, care, or desire, we’re already bound. The ethical question isn’t whether we’re connected - it’s what we do with the pull.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wisdom |
|---|---|
| Source | Moby-Dick; or, The Whale (1851) by Herman Melville — Chapter 16, "The Ship" (contains the line: "We cannot live only for ourselves. A thousand fibers connect us with our fellow men.") |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Melville, Herman. (2026, January 18). We cannot live only for ourselves. A thousand fibers connect us with our fellow men. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-cannot-live-only-for-ourselves-a-thousand-21467/
Chicago Style
Melville, Herman. "We cannot live only for ourselves. A thousand fibers connect us with our fellow men." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-cannot-live-only-for-ourselves-a-thousand-21467/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We cannot live only for ourselves. A thousand fibers connect us with our fellow men." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-cannot-live-only-for-ourselves-a-thousand-21467/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










